Best/Worse &What did I learnt today/Chat with Friends #98

Just got in ... safe and sound, so tired, just going to find my bed..
No work for me tomorrow so I'll come back to the thread and read...I sure did enjoy my time with the boys...

Prayers for all in need...
Missed you all..

Betty glad you're back safe! Can't wait to hear about your trip!

Mary I did a bad bad thing this morning. When I got to work Ms. Cheerful was leading in a conversation between two other employees about her Easter and how church went and all, she said that they had to turn away lots and lots of people, which is really neat they were that packed, if they were that packed, remember she lies all the time so I don't really believe anything she says. Her church is in a city that is #3 in the list of the nations highest crime cities. Not Good. Anyway, their conversation ended and she said something along the lines of God loving her city more than Mena, AR because Mena was hit big time by a tornado and her city wasn't, something to that nature. I got disgusted and turned on my radio, top 40 music. There's this new hip hop song that is pretty dirty, it's a remake of the '80's version of "Right Round." "You spin me right round baby right round when you go down.." Well, somehow the volume went up. I don't know how it happened!

Julie, best wishes to you. I hope it gets better.

Mary, doesn't sound bi-polar from what I've heard, but could be one of the other biochemical issues. From what I heard it's more likely he's just nuts and an a******.

Hey Crissy & Laura -

Well - Crissy - SAD that her church turned away people! Isn't that what a church is not supposed to do? HA!

Hey Laura - Bi-Polar is my standard answer when behavior is erratic like DD's "Bio-Mom"....

I'm hoping DD's don't inherit that...but we're having a rocky road lately......

I hope Sage is young enough that you don't have to deal with that..

DD's are 15, and 16, and it is really very difficult as of late....

Hugs to all and both....

Mary

Speaking of....have to go over to moms for a bit DS and his significant other are coming over....she can be sweet but she has a basket load of issues I forget what the personality disorder is, she just has difficulty dealing with people, Laura could tell you more....but they just arrived so I have to run. back a little later.

Hey Trisha - Good Luck with that! We'll see how the weekend goes.....

Hugs,
Mary

Mom, it's Borderline personality disorder and social anxiety issues, maybe a couple other things. She's a wonderful person, but can be a bit hard to deal with at times.

Mary, I'm just sensitive about the difference between being "nuts" and having biochemical issues. I'm diagnosis bipolar and a lot of people I know have biochemical issues, but there is a big difference between being bipolar and being a psycho hose beast (I've known several). There are also psychological issues which can cause people to be even more nuts the chemical imbalance. Even with the biochemical issue, the psychological issues will effect how one reacts to the chemical imbalance; the same imbalance can cause one person to just have trouble keeping a job where another becomes abusive. Though most of the people we think of as being "nuts" likely have a combination of these; like my DSD's mother. Though undiagnosed (she won't go to a psychologist even to get unsupervised visits with her daughter) I'm pretty sure she's has serious biochemical and psychological issues, and she just a b**** on top of it all.

Well - You are an ANGEL to stay on top of everything....I'm finding it hard to do so.....

Thanks Laura.....suffering from CRS tonight. But dinner with Shawn and Lisa went well tonight she rearranged the small amount of food on her plate, ate her dessert and took seconds home and I assume they have gone to get dinner for her on the way home. But she did well tonight.

And if you get here early we have ham sans and deviled eggs for lunch tomorrow.

Will sit down this morning with coffee and read all about your weekend ...

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Thanks to all of you for your encouragement. Yes, DH is certainly not the same person "mindwise" that he was 18 months ago. I haven't talked to the boys yet, but I will. You are all right; I do have the right to know what he is telling them. I finally got an appointment with a marriage counselor for next week. I go in first for intake, then she will schedule an appointment for us to come in as a couple. DH said he would go. I pray that he keeps his word.

I finished my first beading project this morning. I will take a pic and post it later tonight. I'm so excited about it! It is simple, but it is a start. I'm also signing up to volunteer at the Mary O'Keefe Cultural Arts Center. It is a great arts center that offers so much for adults and children. I usually can't afford to attend the events, but hopefully the volunteering will give me a chance to participate in other ways.

I haven't heard anything new about Liam. I am planning a trip up there probably for the first weekend in May. I'll talk to the MIL and just show up if she says I can stay with her. My mom thinks Colt is trying to "protect" me from Liam's illness, but it hurts a lot more when I find out things like I do.

Betty, hope your trip went well.

4004, enjoy that trip to Ft. Walton Beach. Wish I could go!

For the rest of you, enjoy reading and visiting! I wish I could concentrate enough to read a good book. My mind wanders so much to other things that I just re-read what I've already read. Whew! That was quite a sentence!

love to all, julie

Try again please, that link takes us to a new post, not new thread.

LK

I'll try..
New thread..
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