Quoting: To be clear: co-ops are enjoyed AT YOUR OWN RISK and we are not going to be policing them. There WILL be problems, and you are responsible for policing yourself to minimize your own losses. Buyer beware and proceed at your own peril! :-)
I don't understand the closing of the co-ops. Why not ban the vendor and organizer from doing anymore or from DG all together? And the tattle tales be punished in some way.
As a parent no one would punish all your children for what one did? Or how about your child and the rest of the class get expelled or sat. sak for what one did? I don't think it is fair to the ones who participate or the organizers or even the Vendors that follow the rules and they work out Great. How many were we talking about? Even 10 co-ops bad out of 150 co-ops doesn't appear to be a reason to make the participants of the 140 co-ops be punished. Then there are the ones who participated in the bad ones who knew it was buyer beware and lost and never said a word or complained?
As far as vendor/organizer being both part of the wrong doing did the people buying know that was going on? Probably a very select few because I have never seen in my life a whole group of buyers be all in on what is spelled as plain as that. There would always be a good buyer or more speak up and if not and they are burned serves them right for participating in something they knew was wrong.
I know it was said if they were ever shut down again that would be the final co-ops ever offered. There would never again be allowed to be a co-op. I understand making rules stick but the above quote did leave this up to our policing and our choice and the administration would not be involved leaving them out of the middle of the whole mess. I understood why you did that. What happened to that? I am sorry to be so blunt but it does not appear to be a statement of integrity. You as the administration were not going to listen to the complainers. Why did you not answer them with read Dave's Sticky? The quote from above? Or better yet forward it back empty or delete it?
I know I am pushing boundaries here and I am sorry but if you were going to stay out and did not why not punish the bad and not the good. That is what the bad wanted. Did you check to see if they bought anything in the co-op and any major quantity? They could have been lurkers.
I am not saying administration is stupid or anything like this but I know first hand (personally) how a child can make a parents life so bad you have to ban that child to ever come back. Even if it is your only one. It is up to the ones buying to make their choices (Just as the child I speak of knew and made theirs) Now banned never to return or go to jail. Not all 33 yr olds will go to jail if this one 33 yr old child breaks this rule and goes. How fair would that be if all 33 yr olds went to jail? If the child or co-op participant can not live by the rules made due to their actions or others like them in the last co-op forum. If this child had siblings they would not be punished the same unless they followed in the others foot steps.
I am asking administration to please reconsider for us that obey the rules of the co-ops and know it is Buyer Beware.
I am not bashing the sellers on the market place or classified but I have not seen anything even 1/2 the price of what I can buy it for. I have not seen that big of a discount there. That is for people who are making a living at it or classified for people who want to make some money so they can purchase from the next co-op. That is What I would do because on disability I could not have some of the beautiful flowers (well now gone that the Hurricanes took away) unless for the co-ops.
I guess I could resort to breaking the rules and ask if anyone would buy them for me since I am being punished "as" if I broke the rules. Or open a thread for contributions for my need of such and such flower or helping quench my need to replace what I had or add to my plant addiction. (just an example)
I hope this will be reversed and just like stores here hanging up bounced and never paid checks for all to see I think names should be posted or put on their feed back they are whiners and can not follow rules. Or better yet let us have them to tar and feather !!
While I am here I might as well say telling a man he is Handsome is not sexual and more that the the Hottie used in the context we used it in means anything about sex. Little girls have t-shirts that says "Hottie" that 5 yrs olds wear. Is their parents advertising them? Kids stickers say "Hottie" It is a reference to cute, pretty, it is a slang word today. Now being off subject that is different. But if kids came in they would say look at those old women calling each other hottie. Believe me having 2 DGDs I look at the clothes and plastic beads for bracelets, and stickers. You know I had a t-shirt once it said "The more I know men the better I like my dog. I did not see anything wrong with it till a perverted person ask what I did with my dog. It went straight in the trash. Only because He was a husband of a friend of mine and DHs and I knew there were others like him. Fellow members whoever you are don't make things sexual that is innocent. That is when it gets people thinking it is when big deals are made out of it.
That was not for you Terry as I do feel someone told on that being used. After all you would have caught it long before the 33rd thread and stopped it if you thought it was sexual.
I guess I will climb down off my soap boxes.
Thanks for reading this Terry, Dave, Trish or all three of you.
Blessings,
Sandy