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Southern, CT(Zone 6a)

Couldn't find the song but this guy seems to like them:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tv42xHFg6bc

Lower Hudson Valley, NY(Zone 6b)

Pretty gross!

South China, ME(Zone 5a)

DD had a birthday yesterday...she is now 30! I'm feeling my age today.
Maybe I should of posted this on the "desperately seeking encouragement" thread or It could just be the Tae Bo making me feel this way!

Lower Hudson Valley, NY(Zone 6b)

Happy birthday to her! Consider yourself lucky to have had the kids early!

(Arlene) Southold, NY(Zone 7a)

I'm so grateful my mom didn't have me early or I'd be a lot older!

South China, ME(Zone 5a)

Too funny Pirl! Nichole is now 30, im almost 48, I was really young when I had her but I did a good job. Even if I say so myself!!!

(Arlene) Southold, NY(Zone 7a)

My mom was almost 43 when I was born. She was just the best and I still miss her so very much.

South China, ME(Zone 5a)

My Mom was almost 41 when I was born, and I miss her and Dad very much!

(Arlene) Southold, NY(Zone 7a)

Of course, I miss my dad very much, too, but I had him 9 years longer than my mom.

I never feel my kids can possibly miss me as I miss my parents. Does everyone feel that way?

South China, ME(Zone 5a)

I think so, but I have already been around longer for my kids than my parents were for me. That is one of the reason I had them all so quickly. 1st one is 1978, #2 in 1979, 3 in 1980 4 in 1982 and #5 in 1987 . I was an "orphan" by the age of 31, wasn't going to let that happen with my kids!

(Arlene) Southold, NY(Zone 7a)

I was 30 when my mom died. Sad that none of us have any guarantees. A friend died at 24 and left two little girls that would never get the chance to know her.

Lower Hudson Valley, NY(Zone 6b)

That's so sad when parents die young. My mom never knew her dad. Celeste was busy in the 80's!

South China, ME(Zone 5a)

Yes I was, and in the 90's too trying to keep them all in order!!

Lower Hudson Valley, NY(Zone 6b)

With five and only two hands, I now know why you had to do splits!

(Arlene) Southold, NY(Zone 7a)

My father's father died in his twenties when my dad was 3 months old.

I'm always amazed at the people who never think of their parents and so glad to miss the ones I loved. One boss told me he never liked his mother and never missed her at all. How sad!

South China, ME(Zone 5a)

Splits, round-offs, back flips, super sonic hearing, eyes in the back of my head and one heck of a runner!!

South China, ME(Zone 5a)

Pirl, that IS extremely sad!

(Arlene) Southold, NY(Zone 7a)

At least we're not talking about death on Victor's birthday thread again!

I think I'll go try to attack the compost after the temperature gets up to 35 - might be noon by then.

Questa, NM(Zone 5b)

I had my son going for years, believing that I truly had eyes in the back of my head. Really, I just had mirrors strategically placed around the house so that I could see what he was doing even if I was around the corner. He never guessed!!

Lower Hudson Valley, NY(Zone 6b)

You really need them now that he's close to the teen years! GPS is even better.

(Arlene) Southold, NY(Zone 7a)

Ta da! The asparagus now have their compost.

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South China, ME(Zone 5a)

Looks good Pirl! You have been busy(pout) my only outside work is shoveling.

(Arlene) Southold, NY(Zone 7a)

Thanks. I also cut down the clematises on the copper trellis and found there are two more there - Miss Bateman and another Ernest Markham.

South China, ME(Zone 5a)

Nice find!!!!

(Arlene) Southold, NY(Zone 7a)

Yes! I even gave the area with the clem's a barrel of compost, not that they need more!

Lower Hudson Valley, NY(Zone 6b)

Great Pirl!

South China, ME(Zone 5a)

Not to sound whiney but "I WANNA DIG!" (in the dirt...do not say dig in the snow!!)

Lower Hudson Valley, NY(Zone 6b)

Visit DD in FL!

South China, ME(Zone 5a)

Thought about it...she has BF buddies there this week and her BF is arriving Friday. She has a full house right now and DH can not travel. I can't leave him here either, but I thought about it! (evil grin here)

Lower Hudson Valley, NY(Zone 6b)

Is BF okay with the BF buddies being with DD before BF gets there?

South China, ME(Zone 5a)

Hee hee hee! Yes

Questa, NM(Zone 5b)

I wanna dig too! Between this thread and the Visions of Spring '08 thread, I'm pining. Maybe I'll pot up one of my houseplants.

Medway, MA(Zone 5b)

Victor, say that three times fast!

Lower Hudson Valley, NY(Zone 6b)

I can't say it once!

Lower Hudson Valley, NY(Zone 6b)

Saw a report the other day that well over 1/2 of all adults report cheating on their partners. Was almost 2/3 for men and in the mid 50's % for women. Though nothing really shocks me anymore, I found that pretty amazing. I guess it's no wonder the divorce rate is about 50% too. Just like to think that all the cheaters are cheating with each other, as opposed to with single people. At least that would keep the numbers down a bit. Guess I'm not a typical American male.

Medway, MA(Zone 5b)

Those statistics are a shame. My family always thought I was the "weird" one because I stayed married. My two sis's divorced before 10 years of marriage. A brother is on his third wife - cheated on the first two, but this one's a keeper. Second bro is 48, never married. Third bro is 43, just got married this summer.

Lower Hudson Valley, NY(Zone 6b)

Wow - lots of siblings!

Nantucket, MA(Zone 7a)

Wow, 2/3 for men is astounding. I didn't think that 2/3 of the men I know would bother getting off the couch to find the 50% of the women who are feeling frisky. I am always too tired from the gardening to even think about expending energy on some random vice. But I should know this is all possible, because I know too many people who have run off with someones spouse or partner seemingly out of the blue. Where do they find the time and place to have these illicit meetings?

So I think it is sweet to know that Victor is in the bottom third and not typical. I would like to know what the divorce rate is as caused by reasons other than unfaithfulness. My first marriage had to do with just a change in desires about life in general, not carnal ones. He didn't garden or even want a permanent home. Plus he wanted to stand on his head (really) and have me work so he could read when he wasn't doing his yoga. His second wife has taken nearly 30 years to figure out that he isn't so great. I was a much quicker study. My DH now is a gem. Truly. Plus he gardens. Patti

Questa, NM(Zone 5b)

Good for you Victor!!!!!! Good for you on your second DH Patti. I messed up with my first. Hoping the second will truly be permanent... If there will be a second.

Nantucket, MA(Zone 7a)

Sofonisba, I don't look at my first marriage as a mistake. Rather it was a transition from one place in my life to a better place. You will go there too, if you want, marriage or not. But I guess Victor won't be up for grabs. He is a good guy. Patti

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