Best/worse/what did I learn today? chatting/all welcome

Oops, just got here, 1/2 hr wait at border, pkgs made it across..mom was on breathing machine, now asking where we are going


Best I go running

Betty - looking for your new snowman you got from your buddy!

I'm doing fine - up and down sometimes. Last night I was at choir practice and lost my voice for a bit. It's fine now.
My boss has been back since Nov 25th. Funny thing is........ last Monday he was going home (it was dark) and there was a Buck standing right in the middle of the road. Neil swerved to miss it, but the deer caught his side mirror and broke it off. Someone at work quipped that the deer are after him - first, the antler of the deer he hunted caught him in the elbow in the first accident, then this deer was blocking his way in the road!! my my........
anyway, all his stitches are out and he's not on pain meds anymore.

Heard some news about Neil today - looks like he may be moving back to Stafford UK in the new year....... his wife doesn't want to come back to live in Canada. All their family is in Stafford and they have a new granddaughter..... born 11/12/11. He thought it would be kewl to have her born 11/11/11 but it wasn't to be lol

Morning everyone! Coffee is ready!
Betty, how is your trip going?

Morning everyone, everyone had a good night sleep..we'll do shopping in little jaunts..shop..rest..shop..no craft show today.

Mom really is frail, my opinion is home she should be, but we shall make the best of it! Aunt Muriel is a chatterers and has as much energy as I do.

Just checked listings for post office, only open at 8:30..want to be sitting at their door so I can avoid the main rush seeing as its Christmas. Lots of pkgs to mail

Barb, I put your kit separate from Sean's...thought he might like to get a parcel himself!

Coffee served at 6:30 so might just go get one

Hope you all enjoy your day

LindaKay it's going..today I promise myself I'll mellow out..little patience, actually none!

Wanted to go to Walmart so took the, was there 10 minutes..wanted to eat..went to at least 8 restaurants and none suited her fancym can't eat this, can't eat that, wanted to pick up something for room, something soft..asked her what kind of food is soft? Said same thing I eat at home, ok and what might that be, answer I don't know..finally aunt muriel saw a denny's, last resort..we got out,I said we'll go in and eat, she wasn't pleased, but I am not spending all my time in hotel room...now aren't you sorry you asked. Lol

Oops put the link on the wrong thread this morning..guess I wasn't awake. Lol

Mom his having her medical breathing treatments of meds, then we are off for awhile

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Hi everyone, I'm at internet cafe. Just lost a message. Lound American is very annoying so I';m outa here.

Everything is OK with me. Even good.

Thinking good thoughts of all of you.

hugs, katie

Have a neighbour lad putting up the house lights tomorrow. I'm not up to climbing a ladder for it, and Bob doesn't want to, so this year we'll pay to have it done! $11/hr isn't bad, right? Two hours for a quick-limbed teenager! We only have the one-storied trailer, and it's only the front, so that's quick (maybe some of the inside of the deck where we can see it?!?!)

Just came back from the Dr/pharmacist and I'm back to using the puffer for my bronchitis. Also got some antibiotics. Still have the puffer tube from 2010 and now just added the meds. Hope it works better this time around.

Today I'm going to clear out the living room and decorate the tree, etc. For the first time I have a Christmas village - given to us by a friend who's moved and didn't want it anymore. 5 buildings - looks sweet all lit up on our piano top.

Hi Everyone1

I started this a little bit ago and all of sudden my computer decided to shut down and update. Darn! I'll try to remember what I was rattling on about. It's snowing here. We got 5 inches sow far. It could of held off till March for all I care. I just got home about an hr. or so ago. I went from having hardly any job to having three part time ones. It'll either keep me terribly busy or crazy. Oh ya, I forgot I was already crazy, but keeps things interesting. No TV since it doesn't want to catch the satellite signal through the overcast sky. Oh well, will have to settle with listening to Christmas music. Maybe it'll help get me in the mood.

I've thought about you all, but have been so busy getting this place ready for the winter. What's not done now will have to wait till spring. I've been trying to help my Sis with my Mom. I've been trying to get her quilt blocks put together so she can quilt. I'll have to stop so I can get my exchange gift done. I have two more sets of blocks to put together for her. It makes her happy and want to do something so it is all worth it.

I have to get some registered letters for Tubby's girls as they are neither one talking to me now. I never thought I'd see them be so mean and shelfish. Oh well. I'll enclose the Grandkid's money envelopes in them so I know they get them. I won't hear otherwise. I want to turn their life ins. policies over to them and this is the only way. If they don't respond in so many days they will lose them as I won't keep paying for them. They can cash them in or lose it all to the ins. company. I don't care. I won't be calling them when I decide to sort through his stuff and am ready to part with it. I'm not begging them to be friends with me. I know he is just shaking his head at them and it hurts to think they could be this way. Oh well, life goes on.

LindaKay that is a beautiful quilt. I know mine won't be that way, but I haven't done it in so long I'll be happy however they turn out. Mom will quilt them by hand.

We took my Mom out of the NH and moved her and my oldest Sis into a townhouse in Norfolk. She is finally getting better. I am going to turn the NH in to the state for what all went on to her. She almost died on us because of them. She ended up with three major bacterias in a wound that they said was getting better. It started out the size of a nickel and ended up three inches long and deep on her leg. She was in the hospital 9 days. We just have to get some weight on her now as the leg is getting better finally.

I got my first Christmas card today. It was from the Granddaughter that lives in Florida. I got a nice picture of her and boyfriend.

Well, I better go get something done. I'll check in later or tomorrow. Please take care everyone and God Be With You All!

P.S. Barb glad to hear Norm got great news.

Shirley

Hi y'all!
Shirley, so glad to see you checking in. That's so sad what your Mom went through but glad she's doing better now. Sounds like you'll be real busy with those jobs!

Barb, I'm also glad to hear about Norms good news. Am praying you get some, also.

Betty, been thinking about you on your trip and sending up a prayer or 2 ...

So Mary, did I read wrong or are you off again? LOL

Katie, good to see you're getting along well.

Dianne, I read where Stormy hasn't felt good either? I didn't know about that ... only Quill? Tell Santa Warren I've had so much fun putting my pkg together. I hope my buddy likes the things I've picked out. Wish I was crafty like everyone on this thread!!

We went and got our tree today! I got very upset, though, because when I took out my box with my hand painted Christmas ornament from Betty ... it slipped out of my hand as I was trying to unwrap it. My ornament shattered. I wanted to just sit down and cry. That was a very special ornament! We didn't even finish decorating the tree. I'll finish tomorrow and try to get a picture. I did get our stockings hung up ...

Okay, will just ~ to everyone else tonight. Y'all have a blessed one!

Shirley - sooooooo good to see you posting! I look forward to each time I hear from you :-)

Susan - sorry to hear about your Christmas ornament breaking - that would be heartbreaking....
wow - a tree! Well, sad to say, we only have an artificial, but geeze it looks goooooood! Last year we couldn't find a decent looking tree, so managed to get a 7.5 ft one, with snow on it and it looks so real - except it's pre-lit LOL
I put pine cones and birds on it, and of course the requisite garlands, etc on :-)

I'd better get back to decorating it now......

Morning all,

Get to go home today, anxious to do so!! Bought several more boxes of mesh lighting for the cedars out front, lovely stars to go over the lights for living room tree and several silver ornaments..one special bulb for Roger that I hang each year..guess most of my $$$ was spent at Joann's..20 yards of Xmas fabric, thread..bet there is at least $15 worth of thread on each quilt,,maybe I shouldn't meander as much in the machine quilting. Lol
With Melody making aprons, I decided to buy her fabric for an apron for her, such French cafe design, now who would like such an apron?? Hmmm. Decided to purchase flannel to make Cathy a rag quilt, you would almost thunk I had months to do sewing befor Christmas, guess I'll have to get into high gear.

Bought 3 sets of gold earrings for gifts, stocking stuffers and 2 outfits for me..

Mom is not doing well at all, I really should be ashamed of myself for not having patience with her, she is a very sick lady..guess it is out of frustration that I've made a nuisance of myself complaining to you! sorry....

Did give her the what for though, it's black in the room and she is virtually running to the washroom..pkgs all over the floor, would take but a second to trip..that would do her in for sure..

Plans this morning is NOT to rush, couple stores she said she would like to go to, Iwas going to ask her if she wants to go to Cracher barrel for breakfast, 1/2 hr. drive, but then wonder if it's worth mentioning as she can't or won't eat much. We will see when she gets up what she would like to do?

Sure wish I could put a light on and sew a few embellishments on the quilt I brought with me but know I would keep the gals awake.

Suse, was the ornament painted in scene of Georgian bay?? Likely will not get you one done before Christmas but will do so just after..Look forward to seeing photo's of everyones trees

Best I post this befor it goes into cyber land

Susan, if your tree is anything like the tree I saw at hobby lobby with the snow on it, double wow, would love one..today your lad comes to put up lights?? You will be thrilled to have all the decorating done.

Mary, hope you are enjoying your time away, great to get away from the house to mellow!

Debbie, got to tell you just how much I've missed you these past 4 trips..always enjoy our getting together..has the family taken time out of their busy schedule and done decorating for you? Know you've many family treasures to put out.

Bev, do the boys help you decorate ie the lights?

Shirley, as always am thrilled to see you post. Heart goes out to you, know how hurt you are over Tubby's family treating you so terrible, as you know I went through much the same with Roger's..even today after so many years I still feel the hurt.
Your poor mom, sending prayers she's on the mend...hope those jobs don't total up more than a full time job hour wise.

Dianne, how is your weekend?? Santa Warren want to tell you I've posted my Christmas box..sure hoping my buddy will like?? How is Quill?

Thea, you nice and cozy with that new furnace..guess with high temps you have not had to have it on much..

Thunder, how wonderful that you got to gab with your soldier, guess he isn't allowed to tell you which day he will be on USA ground?? Thanks for explaining what becomes of these soldiers

Judy, need a photo of that rag quilt?? Find your wallet

Gab in a bit

Morning Betty! You don't need to apologize for the way your Mother is acting. It is very frustrating to take care of an elderly person, as I took care of my Dad for so long! Sending you big ((((((HUGS))))) to get you through today!

Coffee is ready! Praying everyone is feeling better!

Shirley, it is so nice to see you pop in when you get the chance, we do miss you, and worry when your gone for so long. Sending you many prayers for a recovery for your Mom!


I have not been sleeping very well, as sometime early Tuesday morning, someone came into our yard, and stole a 4 wheeler we had. Sure makes one very uneasy, knowing someone came into the locked, fenced yard and took some of your possessions! We called the police, and made a report, but it is gone. Now the Grandkids will be so upset when they come in for Christmas. So we have put up alarms on the property, and more security lights and are looking into getting some sort of video surveillance.

Omg Linda Kay, didn't someone try before to rob you..I'd be nervous to say the least..do you have acreage?? Wrinkle if robbers want to get in, regardless what you do they will get in if they want to..did you have insurance? Could you replace it before Christmas?

Mom is on her med machine, we are all packed..not sure where we are going for breakfast, mom says she is not hungry, aunt Muriel says she is starving sooo have to come to some happy medium.

Go to Cracker Barrel anyway Betty and Mom can order as little as she wants and Aunt Muriel can order as much as she wants. Then she can't turn around and say she soooo wanted to go there after you get home!!!

It is wonderful to see you post Shirley. You have truly been missed.

Sounds like everyone is getting in the Christmas mood with your decorating and your shopping and your sewing and crafting. It's a wonderful time of year.
I'm getting anxious to meet with the gastro doc tomorrow and hopefully get some answers as to what is showing up on all these scans. It may be in my head but I just feel like they are seeing something and not telling me what. I could be all wrong about it but until I know, I can't seem to stop worrying. That's why I've been so quiet and trying to keep myself busy.

Speaking of which, this is the mystery quilt I've been working on and I'm finally at the point where I put it together. Hope it comes out okay as it will be for my Sean....

Oh Linda ... hugs! I know how that feels.

Betty, yes, that's what the DH said. I wasn't asking for another ... just upset! I have several special ornaments that are boxed separate, and yours was one. Sorry about your Mom. It's difficult when there is a role reversal with parents. Here's a {{{ }}} to you. I'm thinking there's a lot of us going through similar issues ...


No time to gab now ... Off to Church.

extra hugs to Betty and Barb,and Linda K. this mornin' wishing Y'all a good day !! and reminding you "we are here" for you come and grumble to us...helps to get it out !!!!

Shirley, I was delighted to see a post from you !!

Barb that quilt is gorgeous. and speaking of mystery quilts...... do you by any chance have the directions for the mystery quilt Sondra did ?? I have it started, and lost the directions when my computer crashed !!! I had actually forgotten all about it, and found it when I was looking for some Christmas fabrics.....if you have it, can you e-mail ??

hugs to Y'all

http://davesgarden.com/community/forums/t/1053252/

Thunder, is this the pattern your looking for?

Betty, we have insurance, but did not make a claim as it is only a few hundred dollars. We did make a police report, but they said it probably went across the border? Just pretty sad, as this is the 3 rd time this year someone has tried to break in or steal something! This all started when the city opened a new housing project for all the low income people here just down the street. If it happens again, hopefully the security system will catch it on video?

Barb, please know we will be with you in spirit and prayers tomorrow!

yes I think that is it!!! thanks much Linda K :)

Evening everyone, just got in, had a bath, not sure that I'll not leave everything in the bags and call it a weekend...I'm above being mentally exhausted..

Will tell you about it tomorrow..when we arrived at moms Jim was taking everything out of the car and saw what I looked like...said 'you are made of good stuff, I'd never have done what you did even if you paid me a million dollars' lol

Barb, sending mega hugs and will be praying that the Doctor gives you nothing but good news..know we shall all be with you tomorrow!

Suse, sure know you weren't asking for one, just honored that you liked it..takes but a little while to make anotherw..

LindaKay, going to check that link as well

Wonder if some will get boxes tomorrow??

Hello To All !

Whew - we are back from a quick whirlwind weekend...and it was just wonderful. Even the "teen" drama we had was "controlled" drama... Betty can you believe DSD1 kept us up the first night to ask OUR advice ?? (HUGS) Please vent about your mom if you need to. You are a Saint for putting up with what you do.... Lord knows if I couldn't vent here sometimes I'd explode...

LK - i feel horrible for you as I know recently how it feels to be violated by a robbery... I hope you all can get the security system... and that it won't be expensive.... but that's creepy knowing someone on your property and took your hard earned items... ((HUGS))
Barb... HUGE HUGS and my prayers and positive thoughts going with you... that is a beautiful quilt... you are so talented...
Susan can't wait to see your tree ! We did ours over Thanksgiving... Sounds like a gorgeous one with the snow...

Shirley LOVE your long post... I'm so sorry how those girls are treating you... you don't deserve that but I believe they will get theirs... and you as always so strong and working it all out... Please don't overwork yourself ! But I'm sure it's good to keep busy... We love you !

Katie - glad you can pop in... will you get your computer fixed soon? (or is it internet). When do you get to play "Santa" to the children and have all your goodies come in yet?

Yes Suse ! we were off again this weekend. One on here would think it is often but I'm just using up some vacation that I am owed before the year is up and it was just Friday I took off. We had a lovely time and I wish you had all been with me ... Suse - Thought about you today. I decided to take some time off *regular* books but was passing the time reading my "Passalong Plants" book I ordered a long time ago. The first chapter is on Scented plants ! Some I've heard of and some not...but these are plants that are shared and not often found in nurseries in the South.

I don't know where to start about the weekend... so not sure how to share that... Miss you all and glad to be *back*
HUGS
Mary
PS Waving to all others...

Dianne... I think you asked me a question and I will look... I tried to keep up at night on my phone but it is so tiny... I sure hope Quill is better and Santa Warren has had lots of energy and Appetite...... And Stormy too... You take care of Dianne as you have a lot of folks to care for right now.... between the Hubby and Pup.... Tell Santa Warren I'll be so excited to hear when my swap buddy gets her gift.

Ya'll are so creative... my present is not... wish I had all your talent.

HI all - sorry not been on much. This bronchitis is getting worse. Was amazed on Saturday that I was able to get in to see my Dr after 10 min, in the waiting room, and within 1/2 total I was out of his office with prescriptions. I'm back on my Puffer and it helps for a bit.
I sang in the choir this am, and when I was finished, I was Really Finished. Had to put my hand out to another chorister's arm to hold myself up. I was actually in tears after "Go Tell It On The Mountain" as there are many high spots and I'm a high soprano. I was asked why I didn't just sing quietly, but I Could Not do the song justice if I didn't sing it fully.

Anyway, have most of the decorations up - doing them slowly means I have some breath left to do other things like warming up leftovers for supper...... The lad came by today and did more exterior lights than I would have done on a good year, so apparently it looks good. I haven't been out to see it yet - too tired to get bundled up for it, but hope to get to work tomorrow and see it when I get home (if Bob remembers to turn them back on that is......).

Here's a pic of the fleece blanket I made for the church's "Cry Room" at the back of the sanctuary. I have another one to do and will post it when done. I had to do the entire thing by hand, cuz the fuzz in the fleece would "gum up" my sewing machine. It will take awhile to finish the other one, but hope to get it finished before Christmas.

Susan, sure hope your cold gets better soon! Love that blanket.
Mary, glad to hear you had a nice week end. Where did you go?

Coffee is ready!

Wow LK you are getting up earlier and earlier each day. I sure hope you get a nap during the day.

Morning all..... need coffee so will BBL
Dianne

Good morning,

Linda, you sure are...and considering you are at least 2 hours behind us! Dianne, should we send her back to bed? lol

Betty, big big hugs. Wish I could have been there to help you with MamaFran. You know, Jim was VERY right in what he said. You are cut of special stuff.

Mary, so happy you had a nice weekend. Can't wait for more pictures.

We went to WalMart and got a little fake charlie brown 4 ft tree and put up. Just not up to the big festival of deck the halls like I usually do. Managed to pull out a few special ornaments for it....but mostly are plastic and kitty proof!

Rainy day here....looks outside like I feel inside. Going for coffee to remedy that part!

Debbie

Yep back to bed LK or Deb, you and I could have a coordinated naptime. lol No Debbie I didn't sleep steady from 2:30 am till I posted. Just can't put a few hours of sleep together and apparently my mam used to say I was like that since I was born. Oh joy for mam when I was born then - I was almost a month overdue plus she was old enough to be my grandmother.

Mary glad you had a nice weekend. Drama dustup again with your DSDs?

I want a small tree too but I think Santa Warren wants the full 8 ft tree. His choice and I sure am not saying no considering what might be in our future.

Betty I hope you are feeling more rested this am. You are a saint!!
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There is surely a place in heaven for you Betty. They say sainthood takes a lot of patience and you surely do have it whether it be dealing with your Mom, or ex in-laws or first time students!!! You treat us all with respect and I admire that so much. You do need to get some rest though so I hope today is an easy one for you....

Edited to add my present goes in the mail today!!!!!

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morning, waving to all

Still trying to put myself into a calmer mood... almost 10:30 and haven't gotten there yet..

Took 2 pain killers this am to help and makes the tummy topsyturvy but starting to help!

Debbie, enjoy the tree, it's best you not overdo and pay for it later..some of those walmart trees are wonderful once decorated.

Dianne will you get a real tree? Yep, I'd be giving Santa Warren anything he wants..hope he likes the little trinket I put in your box for him..will you be doing a lot of baking? that's my plan for Saturday, making tortierre's, buttertarts, fruit pies, cookies etc Would like to see that behind me.

Katie, hoping all is well with you, anxious to hear how all of you celebrate Christmas down in Mexico. I should take a plane and join you..heat might help these old bones.

LindaKay, thanks for the coffee, sure could use 2 this morning, any left?

Susan, omg you did that all by hand..now why is it gumming up your machine, shouldn't!!!
Can't belive you are doing another one..you are such a giving person..Maybe Susan you shouldn't be singing right now, only irritates the throat..you've had this a long time!



Mary, anxious to see photo's..wow, imagine your step-daughter asking to speak to you, needing advice..now that's a first..bet you thought ' I've finally arrived, she has accepted me as mom'


Dianne and Thea, wonder if you will get your boxes this week..got into mega trouble at USA postal station Saturday morning..drats So worried all will arrive broken..well not all, just the 3 voltive holders..not the end of the world though right?




Don't know if its as mild in your neck of the woods as it is here..came out with just a light jacket this morning, talk about mild..hard to believe they say snow tonight!

Barb, thinking of you this morning..so waiting to hear good news and see the joy in your posts..your quilt will be outstanding when finished..wow just gorgeous!

Barb, what time is your appointment?

I once had mega patience but seems as I'm growing older I'm losing more and more of it..perhaps I can ask Santa for more for Christmas.

I'm wondering who will get their first workshop kit..need to see that I've put correct wording, paints and all in tact..

Good morning all...just a fast note before I head back to hand-quilting (next year I shall start a lot earlier with quilting all the gifts I want to make!!!). I wish the callus on my poor fingers would built up faster, so it would stop hurting!!...lol

First off...Barb not sure what time your appointment is, but I am right there with all of your other friends, praying for good news and an easy fix. What great news on Norm!! I am soooo happy for the both of you!! *biggggggggg hugs*

Dianne...how is Santa Warren doing and Quill, sure hope that both are painfree and feeling a bit better!! And you of course too, with the cold and rainy weather I am sure you are achy too. Wow 8 foot tree!! I bet that looks so festive once it is all up and decorated. Hugs and prayers coming your way!!

Betty...what can I say...your Mom is just the opposite of you, you are a "Giver" and well she seems like a "Taker" always all about her...and after this weekend with her you deserve more then a gold star!!! Sainthood comes to mind. Lots of hugs for you too, but now REST and think about Betty.

LK...I am so sorry to hear that someone stole your ATV...I can just imagine how violated you must feel. Sure hope you can catch those thieves, or at least with the new security system deter people of trying to steal from you.

Mary...any pictures of your weekend trip?? Always love to see where you travel to.

We went on Saturday to NY to mail my Buddies Parcel and boy is it cheap to mail things from the USA!! The parcel should get there this week and I hope the person will enjoy what I send!!

Well better get going again...will stop on DG on my next "finger" break!!

Have a wonderful day everyone

Love and Hugs
Thea

Lots of coffee Betty, I even have a shot of Bailey's if you would like! May calm those nerves of yours. make sure you call your Dr. And get that appointment you need for your arm please?

LindaKay, am seeing specialist on Thursday at 11:45am...not sure why I have to bring shorts/top (could he be taking me to the beach)? lol Will be glad at least to see what can cause some of what I'm going through..other than that, I'm a healthy as can be.

Thea, you know that you'll be sewing the week before Christmas regardless of when you start..

be back in a sec

Good morning everyone!!

Betty my goodness, glad you made the best of it and had a good time anyway. Glad you all made it back home safely!

LK are you sure that 4-wheeler is only worth a few hundred? My little 15 year old 2 wheel drive 250cc manual transmission is worth $1500, my 11 year old Arctic Cat 500cc automatic transmission 4-wheel drive is worth $5000.

I forgot to take down my fall decorations before Dave put the tubs in the attic, so I'm just going to store the stuff in my closet. I was going to switch decorations out yesterday since it rained all day, actually it's been raining a hard steady rain for 17 1/2 hours now non stop, but I didn't do anything but sit my butt on the couch and watch football all day LOL OOPS!

Barb waiting to hear back from your dr appointment.

Shirley so glad to hear from you!!! Those brats!! Glad you got your mom out of that hospital!

Hi Katie!!

Mary glad you had a great weekend!

Susan you better slow down or that bronchitis will go into pneumonia and you'll be not doing anything but sitting in a hospital bed.

Suse I'm so sorry about that ornament, I would have been bawling too!!

Dianne how's the gang over there this morning?

Oh Betty, I had to do that once. They did a stress test, and was easier doing it in shorts and tank top than one of those nasty hospital gowns. They hook up elctrodes to you and you walk on a treadmill. Then, for an ultrasound...just the dopler scan. No pain involved. They could just be giving you a good once over that way....and as said, more comfort than those dang gowns with body parts flappin in the breeze!

Betty...they might do a nerve conduction test to see if you have a trapped nerve...orrrrr he might take you to the beach...lol

Debbie I hear ya about the decorating thing, got the tree up but the rest of it I could really care less about, I'd rather go look at other people's decorations LOL!!

Thea!

Our postal service is cutting back and it's going to start taking longer to get things to and from locations. I didn't hear a date of when this is all supposed to start, I'm hoping after the first of the year, that would be the smartest time to start it.

Thank you all for your good wishes for me. My appt is for 2 PM and we are just getting ready to leave. I'll post later.....
Betty, won't your regular doctor give you anything for that pain? Is he making you wait until you see this specialist? I hope you get answers soon too.
Thinking of you too Susan and hoping your throat gets better soon.

Crissy, I promise I won't go looking in your closet to see where you put your autumn decorations if you promise you won't look in my sewing room!!! Why does everything seeem to end up in there/????