Woke up to a groggy head and kept losing my balance. I think it's the side effect from my meds, extra Lyrica b4 bedtime, and a sleeping pill.
My world is in a quite blurry state and I'll be okay after I lay down for a few more hours.
LK, I hope your niece is found soon. Does his family cares about him enough to intervene? I do hope Ashley won't end up with the prison population but at a Rehab.
(((((((Barb)))))))) It's my mother's old advice I always heed and have applied it with both marriages. She would say, your husband is not yours till he's 6ft. in the ground and you kids can have 10 spouses, but only one set of parents.
With that imbedded in my mind, I never made Kel nor ex choose. With Ex, his parents were the kinds to let their kids live their own lives.
With the present ones, there were cases of wiretapping...hired investigators... and the most serious.. willed deceptions. All these happened with all their sons' marriages. Wives couldn't tolerate their obsession over controlling their sons, and left. I am Kel's 3rd wife.
I gave them the utmost respect all these years and turned the other cheek all the time, or redirected myself to God's words.
But last year, having enough melodramas, I prayed about it, and chose to stay home to avoid anymore unnecessary anguish.
Kel truly can't leave this place as long as his father's ill. I know he's torned between them and me, but I will NOT satisfy his mother.
So you all get the idea. Confront this woman, she'll only make your life miserable or take it out on the man you love who stayed around because no one else is helping his father. She fired all the hired help we hired!!!
When I meet Murdock's friends on the street, they always ask me why his wife refused to let anyone visit him! When I suggested calling first before knocking on their door, they said she cuts them off!
Can I say Total Control?
I had at one time capable of giving tongue lashings, but since I've taken His path.... I have been holding back.
Barb, she made it so easy for me not to socialize with her these couple months!! LOL!!!
If you could spare a couple more minutes... I have to bare this experience.
My beautiful sister and her kids came to NC for 6 weeks. MIL during the second week took them all shopping.. pretty upscale department store. Then to dinners at restaurants after that.
Sister thought I was lucky to have a terrific MIL. Kel and I laughed for the 4 years I've been there she never took me shopping nor had a private luncheon, but I was glad she was nice to Zi.
A few weeks later, they were invited to a nice restaurant and MIL knew the owner very well. I was 'reluctantly' invited as Zi told her she'd love for me to be there.
Sistahs... Zi and the kids were introduced to the owner and waitress, but not me. Women has this gift called "intuition" and Zi suddenly realised where I stand in the family.
Then the worst thing she could have told Kel in front of Zi and the kids and a couple of relatives one evening, was that Zi's kids should be Kel's. Equal Places Stabbing? Then she praised Zi for being so slim and beautiful with a French chic.
That pisses off my little sister! She stood up and said that I'm beautiful too, quite a world traveller at one time, and NOTHING can break us apart. As for the kids, its' God's will that she marries Patrick!!
The consequence of this drama is that as long as MIL is alive, Zi will never come down, unless I move more than 100 miles away!!!
Darn, seems like I had popped an emotional boil, huh?
This is good for my soul.
Wow.. typed for more than an hour and the grogginess gone!!!
