This is for our Becky

(Becky) in Sebastian, FL(Zone 10a)

Thanks to everyone for your kindness during a very sad and stressful time for me. I read a lot of the threads and especially this one, but often do so at work on my break. Since I have a short break, I sometimes don't get a chance to post. When I get home, I've forgotten and then don't reply. Please know that I DO READ all the posts and do appreciate everyone's concern. So much is still going on in my life, that I have a hard time keeping up with replying. I am so far behind on everything because I am now dealing with my mother's modest estate. I'll be glad when it is settled. I think I can move forward when that day happens. Right now dealing with Mom's belongings and her home, etc. is just very difficult. I plan to have a garage/estate sale the beginning of next month. That is going to be very hard for me. I hate departing with any of her belongings. Doing so almost makes it feel like she didn't exist. I know that sounds odd, but it's putting closure on my Mother's life and that is not easy for me at all. I miss her something awful. We were very close and I feel like I have lost a huge part of my life when she passed away. It's so hard letting go ...

(Ronnie), PA(Zone 6b)

Becky, you don't have to let go yet, as matter of fact you don't ever have to let go...my mom's been gone for 23 years and it still seems like yesterday. Don't rush things, let them go at there own pace and you will eventually feel peace in your heart.♥

Louisville, KY

for Becky

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scio, oregon, OR(Zone 8a)

When my grandmother died, my mom went to a grief couselling group for a while to help her let go. She said it really helped.

Livermore, CA(Zone 9b)

Oh Becky, just saw this thread, I'm sorry to hear about your mom.

The "tent city" was in our local paper here again this morning, it is just tragic : ( that so many people are hurting . And scary for everyone. You deserve the best, good things will come.

(Debra) Derby, KS(Zone 6a)

Becky, time will help the hurting part, but you will always miss her.. I still miss my mom terribly and she has been gone 8 years now.. just remember we all love you and are continually praying for you.

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