Hmm - I live in the foothills of the appalachian mountains up here near Pittsburgh, Tax-avania, oops, I mean Pennsylvania. PA is a commonwealth. Everyone pays the same flat rate % of taxes, regardless if poor or wealthy.
Therefore, Tax rate here is high, at least to me. NY taxes work like the fed tax system. When I moved here from NY, I discovered that it cost me $5,000 more a yr to live here between state taxes, wage taxes, cost of living, rent, etc.
In NY, got back more than ever paid in, as single mother of 2. Here, pay about 2.8% of all wages to state, regardless. Then there is the 1%, plus $52 a yr, to local tax authorities for the priviledge of working here too.
Then, there are the real estate taxes. I pay $350 a month for my mortgage and about $225 a mo for taxes and insurance. Insurance isn't much... guess what is!
So many invisible things that have to investigate first. My Dad used to always want to move to the Ozark Mtns. It always sounded like a great place to me too! I saw some of his real estate stuff he had sent to him and when Vashur said that, I was like... me too! me too!
I agree, family and friends are awfully impt! Irreplaceable!! My move here got me 350 mi closer to my Dad, which was awfully impt to me!! We got to see him a lot in the last 6 yrs of his life because we were closer. Wasn't able to see him more than 3-4 times a yr from NY.
Has it been worth it here in Tax-avania? Yes, for me. Would it be worth it for you to come here? Prob not. Don't know enough about SE KY or SW VA though.
As for OH, grew up there, 30 mi SW of Cleveland. Only know about that area, but friends found it much cheaper to live in OH than NY, after they moved to NY, then back again. For you? Don't know. Maybe the southern parts...
I wish you the best!! ~ Suzi :)
PS - I still like the Ozarks idea a LOT!!