To all guys here...How to keep a women not only happy,,,,

To all guys here...How to keep a women not only happy,,,,but glad she married ya.

One of the things I've seen in friends is that a marriage starts out like a hot pepper. Only to turn to cooler times during the passing years.

A couple a days ago was my baby hit her 59th birthday. Today she recieved at work (this is important...get it delievered at work) 50 imported extra long red roses. With 9 imported white roses and one rose dipped in 24K gold...to grow on.

Tonight she eats one of her favorites meal. Fresh pork cooked in with sweet sauerkraut, seasoned with fat-back, sweet onion, bacon, and sweet capacola. It will be servered with a sticky mash-potato. After dinner her drink will be a warmed brandy over homemaked ice cream. Desert will be raw-apple cake with homemade carmal sauce (sorry about the mis-spelled words.)

14 years and it is the same as day one....hot to go and glad when you get there....
Olds

my mouth and my mind are watering.mmmmmmmm. My DH used to cook lunch and bring it to work for me so we could eat together. It does make you feel special to get flowers delivered and at work is even better because everyone gets to see them. You are so cool.

well, you said your message was for the guys but i read it and I'm showing your message to you know who! We made a crock of sauerkraut in october and fix it much as you do except for the capacola, just what is that?

Nice birthday for DW!

Happy Birthday, Mrs. Oldman!

Cheri'

ZenZinnia,,,

You can find a cheap copy of it in deli as hot ham. However, there is hot and sweet. I get the sweet. It is a Italian ham. The stuff in a everyday deli is nasty. You got to find a good imported one.


Below is a pic of my baby girl's flowers. (For whatever it is worth guys...she has now 14 roses that have been dipped into gold.)

Beautiful, you are a doll and a keeper.

WOW! What a nice thing to do. The next time I am in Homosassa Springs I'm gonna pop down to St. Pete and meet this lucky woman and her paragon of a husband! Jo

WOW! Today is our 15th anniversary and I sure wish that my DH had read this. I wonder if I could forward it to his place of work? I think I will check with his boss and see if he could get it to him.
Sounds like a night of Romance to me.
What a lucky lady to be married to such a wonderful man.
Congradulations on your 14 yrs and I can understand why it's such a happy union.
Jan

Well I will tell ya ladies.

Without getting into a long song I've been married 4 times. My first two wives where killed by drunk drivers. My 3rd wife after 12 years went back and remarried her X. That is ok I got the house.

When I met Susan I figured that I had gone though all of the bad luck there was to have.

I treat her the same as all of my past wives. Only this time no one is dying or leaving. Life is good and yes we both work at it everyday.

Susan was a 42 year old never-been-married-school-teacher when I met her.

Heh he he she knows no different than to be loved and to love back. So in all fairness I have to say that...wifes many times make their own beds. Sometimes they want to blame their husbands. Sometimes the husbands are to blame.

Let me ask this question..."When was the last time you sent to him flowers?" Try it you might just be surprized!

I can tell you that, at least from my point of view, a new fishing rod is not an expression of I love you.

Olds



This message was edited Nov 5, 2003 12:38 PM

Aw gee....got the warm fuzzies here. Any chance that I could be adopted??

That's fantastic, Olds! She must be a special woman...you are a special guy, for sure.
My husband and I will celebrate our 25th anniversary this summer. I have, as you asked, sent him flowers more than once!! He's sends me (or brings me) flowers as well. We also will ask the other out on a date for no particular reason other than to be together and plan a surprize evening...sometimes dinner and a movie, sometimes an art exhibit or a concert....this year for my birthday I got in my van to go to the store and the Beatles "Love, Love Me Do" started playing on a new CD player that he bought and installed for me after I went to bed. Love is a gift from the heavens. It should never be taken for granted and should never be allowed to die. Marriage is a lot of work, with great rewards for the heart and soul. I wish you and yours many, many more years of such happiness---you dererve it!!

Olds 38 years ago linda bought me a four ounce Fenwick spinning rod. It was pure magic in my hands so light and perfectly ballanced. A thing of beauty she bought for me because she knew I would never spend that kind of money on a fishing rod. It came with a plastic case and a red and green
plaid wrap for the rod to go in. We paid forty dollars a month for rent. You may not consider a fishing rod love but she sure had it in her heart when she gave that one to me. So I guess what I am saying we all covet different things.

By the way Linda gets flowers and she even has given me some at work of all places. I work in a shipyard can you immagine the razzing I got over that? I still have the vase on my desk its shaped kinda like a mug with a Tulip looking flower for a handle. Yes it worked I'm still with her.Regards Ernie

Im always text messaging my DH just to say I love you(isnt technology grand) he gets really busy at work so a personal call is often inconvenient(sp) this way he can get it anytime. Yesterday for the first time he sent me a text message a long one, he wrote....
I am always thinking about you even if I do not say I do. I love you Angel Eyes.
I called him back and told him I didnt like it when he made me cry. LOL

Oldman, thanks for the info. I am quite a way from a large town so I probably won't be able to find the imported ham. happy birthday Mrs. Oldman. that is the most beautiful bouquet of roses I have ever seen. I love the angel too.

Zen

oh my! Dravencat and Eweed!! Those are such sweet "love stories"!! Great...now I am crying!!

Before DW and I got married I wrote her a poem about everyone having "keys" to thier emotions and how after my divorce from Ex I had hurled those keys into the ocean. I also wrote that with her help I was wading through the shallows and finding them again. She still keeps it. 23 years together and she still hasn't found a reason to kill me.

I don't get into what I've written much...however, here is one item I wrote about my wife 14 years ago:

Being as a morning's mist dancing on the waves of the new day's light I looked upon her softness knowing that I would give rise to the light of her mid-day's time, only to die in the heat of her evening's passion.

Olds

EDIT: The one thing that has seen rebirth everyday with Susan is expressed above. Never once have I seen a winter's night.





This message was edited Nov 8, 2003 2:50 PM

Oldman thats wonderful, just wonderful.

I leave my DW a note every morning, to have a flower day.
I use a different flower every day, for example have a tulip day, have a marigold day etc.

Paul

Paulgrow, that sounds like a swell plan. Bet you have a happy wife.