Just one wish!!!

Besides peace, what would you wish for...My daughter passed away several years ago, I wish I had her back even if it was just for one big hug . I would love for her kids to see her (Katie 8 and Jimmy l2). How about you gang?

My wish is that Meems gets her wish

Love

Your Bro

Meems, I lost a precious daughter, too, and for years I would have the most realistic dreams of holding her again. I don't have those anymore, but have always thought it was somehow her contacting me to comfort me until I learned to live without her. It still can make me cry to talk about her, and it's been 22 years, so I know the empty feeling never goes away. I think of her every single day. I would wish for you that it becomes more bearable. And I wish I was close to you so I could hug you and share your pain.

I wish all three wishes above could come true, along with another wish. That no other parent would ever have to go through that.

My thoughts exactly tiG!! DITTO!

I second (or third) that - God Bless All, vic

I lost mt Mother and Father in the past few years and wish they were still here but I had them for alot of years as I grew from a girl to a woman and will enjoy all the memories we had, but I lost my DIL in May and she left behind 2 beautiful boys ages 1 and 2 1/2 that will grow up to never know their dear sweet Mother and I feel so much sadness for them and my son who has lost his soulmate forever...

If I could turn back time I would gladly give my own life instead of Tammy's to save these children from a life without knowing their own Mother...

We are going to remind them everyday of their Mother and hope they will learn that she loved them more than anything...

I'm sorry to vent here and on a sad note but I just had to!
I could add alot more but I won't bore you all with the details!

Rebecca

(((((Rebecca)))))

i lost my grandbaby too, she was just two weeks old and never left the hospital. the only time i got to hold her was after she passed. i remember putting my cheek to hers and wishing this moment could last forever. so meemsdream, aimee, and rebecca we all share the loss of loved ones and it helps to talk about it and have someone there. my heart goes out to all of you. patricia

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Rebecca, I'm glad to see you venting here, it's a good place for that. You know you are among friends who truly care. And I'm glad you're in the lives of those little babies to remind them of who their mother was. That is a divine mission. Patricia, I lost a grandson who never left the hospital, too, and I think most people don't realize how painful that is to a grandmother. He wasn't the first grandchild, but everyone thought he was by the way I reacted. I comforted myself and his mother, my daughter, by saying he went to heaven to be with my other daughter. She lived 13 years, he lived 13 days. Even now, I long for him to be here so we could know him and love him. Hugs to you both in this shared pain.

Thank you all for your caring and kindness, you will all be in my thoughts and prayers. I know someday my wish will come true and so will yours. There is sure a good bunch of people in Daves Garden!

There are 4 people missing from my life-I would wish that they were all back! I to understand everyones pain-and wish for your pain to be eased.(2part wish!)
((((((((((((((((((davesgarden friends)))))))))))))))))))
God bless you all!

at this moment, i wish i could take all of the above's pain away ((((hugs to yall))))

I wish I could reach out and hug each of you, and help ease your pain. Rebecca, no apologies are necessary for venting - I'm glad we're here to listen, and I hope we can help give all of you a measure of comfort. ((((( Here's a huge hug across the miles )))))

I would wish for my son to be able to walk

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(((((Pebble))))) and all of you - my heart is heavy for your hurt and pain. I know what it's like and can empathize!!

(((((((((((pebble)))))))))))

I feel like im selfish in my wish, but im still posting : (
I wish that my kids would learn to value and appreciate the life they have been given.
Jen
((((((hugs)))))

(((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))To all of you. My heart goes out to everyone here. I feel all your pain,for I to have been through it. There is nothing worse than loosing a child,a parent,your sole mate or anyone that is close to you. I'm sorry. This is just very difficult for me
Prayers go out to each of you.

We read the posts from each other daily, and form opinions about the lives others have based on those posts. But it could be that these opinions are all wrong,that we seem more carefree on these forums because they are our respite, our time to forget the suffering for a moment and draw strength from like minded people in the garden. That is good, but it's also good to be able to ask for a hug when things hurt. The only way others know we need it is if we ask. When I first visited with Rebecca, I thought she was an indulged stay-at-home wife, probably in her early twenties, pleasant but not serious. I could never have guessed her true situation, the pain she was in at the time, the complications in her life. Later, as she revealed herself to me in email, I was embarrassed at myself, and I quickly did an about face in my thinking. I feel like she is my close friend, especially since we can talk about our real lives openly. If she hurts, I want to rush to her side and help her deal with it. So never be afraid to be open with your cybergarden friends. And never underestimate the importance of sharing your pain. I think almost everyone here wants to share and help.

Oh Aimee,
I have never met you and truly love you as a sister and will someday meet you along the road... and appreciate all the empathy from all of you...and life goes on...

Love,
Rebecca