What is wrong with people??? Neighbor issues

Hillsboro, OH(Zone 6a)

You know Kristi, they must not have noticed what a kind, generous, caring and giving person you are. That is their loss. From now on, let them look at grass or weeds or whatever they had before and keep your plants in your yard to enjoy for yourself, your family and your company. You obviously GAVE them something they did not appreciate. So let them go without from now on!!! Are you going to tell us what you lost so we can try to help you out?? :) You are loved here so poo on the retentive. hehehehe

San Leandro, CA(Zone 9b)

I think we should all send Kristi our best invasive weed seeds! Every night go for a walk and empty your pockets Kristi!


No, but it would sure feel good! LOL

I am so sorry Kristi, but we are your true neighbors here! Think of us when you see their vinegar faces and then smile.

Tulsa, OK(Zone 6b)

Oh, Kristi, how awful! Let us know what we can replace, when you've had a chance to sort it out. I agree with the others, I wouldn't plant anything there next year, let it look [deleted]! And, since they don't want to be good neighbors, I wouldn't hesitate to complain about loud parties, noisy dogs, unruly children......whatever! After all, you didn't start it, they did.

Edgewater, MD(Zone 7a)

Datdog, I hate when things like that happen,I had one neighbor I wanted to see leave, she made it easy, I called narcotics and within several months(and many calls from me and other neighbors) she got her house raided and she was jailed for narcotics possesion. She was out of there 30 days later. She was evicted. And the night before she left she got drunk and stood on her front porch and blamed all of us for her getting busted.
If there is anything I can do for you please dont hesistate to ask, and buy a pink flamingo with some quick set cement for spring. hee hee

Beverly Hills, CA(Zone 10a)

I suggest sending them a letter advising them that if there is any further incident of vandalism on your property, you will have no other option but to file a written complaint & obtain a TRO against them. If nothing else, it'll scare the
Bambi

Medford, NJ(Zone 6b)

You guys are the best!!!! You really did make me feel better. Root I'm sorry your garage got broken into and your chainsaw taken. Did they get anything else?

Once again thank you so much for your kind and heart felt offers for plants. I'm really okay in the plant dept. and don't need anything. After the plant shock factor wore off, I was just SO very SAD about the people factor. The lady that went off the deep end on me has always been very nice- a little high strung. But I thought she was a nice person. She has two children that are wonderful girls. The oldest would babysit my kids from time to time.

The other man involved (he lives down the street) apoligised to me and said he'd help me dig through the pile of plants to sort out what I wanted. Of course at the time I was so mad tears were rolling down my face. I bet he did feel bad, LOL....

Hopefully it will all blow over soon. But if it doesn't I don't think it will be a loss for me. I never said anything mean, hurtful, or was I rude. I just couldn't understand the anger they showed. However I did see their true side. So maybe that is all I need to know.

Medford, NJ(Zone 6b)

Came across this quote this a.m. it must be fate.

Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could; some blunders and absurdities have crept in; forget then as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; you shall begin it serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense.
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

Denver, CO(Zone 5b)

awww Kristi... Im glad you feel a little better. Sure makes me sad to read this. And how WEIRD that they are "ok" people.. hmmm there musta been somthin in the water that day. At least you did get one sorry.. my thoughts are with you!

Social Circle, GA(Zone 8a)

BIG HUGS! It's over, don't let it get to you!

Brundidge, AL(Zone 8b)

That's a good quote Kristi, I hope in a week or two you will be all smiles and this will all be a big blurrr, take care
amanda

Mableton, GA(Zone 7b)

Well, hun I'm glad you're feeling a bit better. That lady must have some awful stuff going on in her life to snap like that.

Now my only question is...

Why do crackheads need a chainsaw to cut their rocks? Seems like overkill to me! lol (sorry that you got broken in to root, it's very creepy)

Chariton, IA(Zone 5b)

Angie, I love your question. LOL!!

Kristi, that is a wonderful quote. Hang in there. You will come out on top for being one of the nicest and most generous people I know at Daves Garden.

Independence, MO(Zone 5a)

this sounds like trespassing to me. I have a lot of patients with people but i would have for sure called the police... Do you suppose if you didnt like what they plant next year in thier yard you can just rip it up and they would understand? Ohhhh people can be so mean!

SOrry you have such rude neighbors. you can move next to me i promise i wont hurt your plants but i will water them when they need it:))


mercy

Edgewater, MD(Zone 7a)

"be how you want others to be", that was on a sign in front of a church I passed today and honey I would definitly want you for my neighbor.

Harrisville, MI(Zone 5b)

Glad you feel better Kristi,I too,go by your quote,I am too happy to dwell on sad things,I just know someone got a deal of a lifetime on a 400 buck saw,lOL!
I hope maybe this will bring your neighbors closer to you,hopefully they will now see the work you put in,and the enjoyment these plants bring.next year they may take the time,to lower their nose and stop and smell the flowers.

Riverside, CA(Zone 9b)

Kristi, I am as appalled as everyone else about what your unkind neighbors did to you and your beloved garden. I agree with Padre, also that "They have stolen your plants, don't let them steal your peace of mind, too." It must have been a part of their design to hurt you personally, or they would have talked to you first. Please don't let them have the triumph.

Please look at my trade list, and if there is anything I can give you, let me know. We will all help you to be the triumphant one in all of this.

Your friend,
Vickey
Riverside, CA

Barnesville, GA(Zone 8a)

Aw gee Kristi, just saw this. You know darn well they were just jealous!

How about signing up Ms. Sourpuss to every junk mail list you can?

Medford, NJ(Zone 6b)

Have I told each and everyone of you that I adore you??? I really, really DO!!!!! The kindness and sharing you are all offering is appreciated beyond words.
LOVE,
Kristi

Harrisville, MI(Zone 5b)

Right back at Ya!

Wildwood, FL(Zone 9a)

The neighbors are acting badly now because they have to make right in their minds the wrong that they did to you. This makes them feel better about the destroying of your plants.

Lima, OH(Zone 5a)

To heck with the neighbors Kristi. We all love you, that's all that matters!

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