NEED HELP FROM ALL GRANDPARENTS

Hey Guys I really need your help and good advise,As some of u know my DD is expecting her 2 child and KAYNE will be
turning 5 this weekend,Me and dh are very close to KAYNE
We have took time to love and nuture him for the last 5 yrs, he lives next door,Well me and dh noticed the last 3 or 4 months his mom and dad seem to ride his little butt
everytime he moves, so i finally said something last month and he have had little spats about him a couple of more times.DD hormones r so bad u can't even say 2 words about anything without her jumping dowm my thoat,so down since she stays mad at me ,she keeps Kayne way ,this has really
hurt me ,i have kept him 12 hrs a day sometimes for the last 5 yrs since his mom and dad work,it hurts not to see him HE REALLY IS A GREAT KID ,LOVING ,KIND ANSD LOVES LIFE
HELP LUV NANA

well i have had a private email from a grandmother who
gave me some great advice,
take a deep breath ,walk and away for a little while
and KEEP MY MOUTH SHUT
LOL it's a good with i am off my blood thinner for awhile,
cause i might have to bit my tongue for awhile.
luv nana

Dear Nana, as hard as it is I have to agree the best you can do is try and not show your feelings. Hopefully after your DD has your new grandbaby, she'll be more tolerate and those female hormones will return to normal. I guess it comes down to that old saying "you catch more fly's with honey than manure! Just be the Sweet,Loving,Christian Mother and Grandmother that you are and pray for a peaceful solution. I've been in your shoes, the same situation and learned to keep my mouth shut and still have to even now. But it sure is more peaceful for all of us and especially the Grandchildren. You take care and try not to worry and I'll pray for You and Yours!!

(((((Hugs)))))
T-lily

Nana, bide your time. DD's disposition should improve after the arrival of the new grandchild. I know it hurts not to see your grandson as much, but the way to a reunion is to show support for both of them. Grandparents can usually spoil the child, and send them home to the parents. Parents are then sometimes left with what they may perceive as unrealistic demands from the child,...ie..."grandma always lets me..."
Just continue to love and nuture everyone concerned. It will get better.

"eyes"

thanks guys ,it helps to know someone else have been.
i like all of you have enought worrying and praying for our county,i would not have posted this because of all
that's going on ,it's just that i needed my friends the
help me to get back to being close to my family in the time
horror that's happening in our AMERICA.
LUV NANA

Nana - The above advice is good and I cannot add to it since I don't live anywhere near my daughter but I know you must be heartbroken at times. Things will get better (((hugs))

((((((Nana))))))) "T" ;)

I guess what we Grandparents, have to remember is, how much we disliked interferance from our parents when we were raising our children!!!!!!!!!!! I know my Mom and I came to silent treatments a few times.

we're here for you nana, isn't it nice to have a place where we can post things like this and get support!!1

yes tig it is the best
luv nana

You raised your children your way..... let them be. They'll figure it out on their own, eventually.

(((((((((((((herblady)))))))))))))))

Dear Nana, I haven't personally had this problem with my grandchildren as they both live over 500 miles away but I will certainly keep you and your family in my prayers -
God Bless........vic