I just put my 14 year old SharPei male down named Mushi. I have been absolutely devestated and have had a bad time with this grief. He belonged to my X and I and I still have Mushi's dd, named Koala. He had to live with my X and I still loved him, he was in my divorce papers. I couldn't bring him for a while and when I could, my present h was mad because we had another male that we got to keep Koala from being so sad when we couldn't have Mushi. They fought so everyone, even the kids wanted him at my X's.
Once I saw he was sick, I took him to the vet and to my house no matter what my h thought. He ended up with a failed liver, probably to cancer and had a kidney failing so I know I had to put him down.
I have so much guilt that I didn't get in my h's face and the kids over it sooner, now he is gone. I spoiled him rotten and hope that is what he remembered, but my heart hurts. Here is a picture.
