I'm sorry, but im not going to be able to fill them.
If you sent postage (or money) please let me know and ill send it back.
I'm usually a good trader, but with everything that has been, and is still, going on gardening is the furthest thing from my mind.
My youngest son has been in the hospital for mental evaluations. My brother disappeared the day after Thanksgiving and i found out last night that he has committed suicide.
I'm sorry to all that ive let down.
If im still welcome here, please let me know. I feel awful that i was unable to fill the promised trades.
Hope everyone understands
jen
To those i owe cuttings to
Oh my goodness.. I can't imagine what you are going through. How very awful for your family. My very best hopes for your son. My prayers are with you and your family.
Please stay with us whenever you can.
Liz
Jen, I'm so sorry to hear of what you are going through. This isn't the time for you to worry about trades, just take care of yourself and your family. Everything else will work out. If there is anything I can do for you, I'm here. I'll be thinking of you and your family and hope that you will be back with us when the time is right for you.
Shirley
Oh my Jen! I'm sorry to hear of all your troubles.Of course you are still welcome here. I'm sure everyone will understand. It's good of you to even be worrying about trades right now with all the stress you have been under.If I can do anything for you just let me know.
I pray for you Jen.
We are a large family here. Sending cuttings and seeds if we will have time, sharing bad and good experiences.
Crying and laughing together.
Please care for yourself and your family.
Brugs will come later.............................
Try to be strong, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
I know what you are going through right now...
Love
Ludger
Am very shure you are most welcome here.
L.
Oh, Jen, what you must be going through right now. You'll be in my thoughts.
Jen, will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. John
We are all with you MSJen......Hoping things get better!
Jen, I am so sorry to hear all what is going on in your life at this time. My prayers are with you and your family. I am one of your fall traders and I for one am not concerned a bit. You take care of what needs to be taken care of . . along with yourself. Everyone will understand. Bruggies have some of the biggest hearts around. We are all here for any support you may need.
Deb
Jen,
I am so sorry for all the things you are having to go through. Trading is nothing to worry about at times like these.
You are in my prayers.
MSJEN,My Prayers are with you and your family.Sometimes it seems so very overwelming.You will always be welcomed here and I really hope you lean on all of us at this hard time in your life.Somehow the days will seem to get a little better inch by inch and the sun will make you smile.Please keep in touch and let us know how your are. God Bless
MSJen you are in my thoughts and prayers. Just worry about taking care of yourself and family at this time and nothing else.
(((MSJen)))
oh Jen. I'm so very sorry. I'm praying for you and your family, the loss of your brother is hard.
Your son will be strengthened as time goes by, you are a wonderful person and therefore you must be a wonderful mother.
We love you Jen, and we've missed you. When you are ready, please come back. If you need someone to talk to, I've been there with my teenagers, my shoulder is yours.
(((((((Jen)))))))
Sorry about the bad news, Jen. Hang in there....things will get better.
Its definately been a roller coaster that we've been on.
Bran was discharged and has confirmed bipolar, odd, tourettes and add/adhd. Hes on some pretty strong meds, but the dr seems confident that through therapy we will able be able to work through this.
I thanks everyone for understanding!!
Jen
Bless your heart Jen. You'll be in my prayers. I am glad that your child has been diagnosed and that now you will be able to work through this. Take care.
I am so sorry for the loss of your Brother. It is very hard to loose a loved on. I will pray for your Son to keep on improving. ((((((((HUGS))))))))
Jen,
So very sorry to hear of your family troubles. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Barbara
Ms Jen,It is so hard to go thru something like that...and to happen durring the holidays is much harder.Try to be strong,and don't feel weak if you break down sometimes.the trades and stuff are the last thing to be worrying about.Just take care of you and yours!
Jen I am so very sorry to hear about your brother,you know that everyone here at DG is thinking of you and your family!!!
I also hope that thing's work out with your son and that he is well again soon !!!!!
sue
MsJen both Ann and I will be praying for you and your family.This is a rough thing to go through anytime but especially during the holidays.
In the meantime,since Jen is family,let's get together and see if we can fill Jens trades for her.
Why not post the trades here and let us see which ones the rest of us can cover for you?
JT,
What a super idea....Jen let us know.
G2S, i thank you so much for your generous offer, problem is that until i can find the thread i dont know to who i owe.
Off the top of my head, i know jim (grc) and mavie, and waterloo. other than that im drawing a blank.
ill try to post more later. there are some emails that i need to go through. i havent been able to get online for a while now, and there a gazillion to sort out.
jen
Great idea JT.
MSJen, I work at a school for emotionally disturbed kids, teaching the high school class. With proper meds and family support, they make great progress. I know your son will have all the family support he needs. It may take awhile to get those meds right, but there is light at the end of the tunnel. I will be praying for you and yours.
Pam
Hi Jen, Don't worry about what you owe me. Family always comes first. Anyway we can help let us know.
Jim,
What was Jen supposed to send you...maybe I can help out and send it for her. LMK
What a sweetheart to worry about people on Dave's when you are obviously so concerned and involved in your family's needs right now. Do not let your heart be troubled, Davers always care more about people than plants! Take care Ms Jen!
Glory thanks for the offer but I really am ok. Just well wishes for Jen will suffice. You are so kind to offer.
Jen, I am so sorry to hear about all the sorrow that you are going thru right now. The death of your brother is such an emotional burden right now and then to have the worries about your son. It is true that there is alot of help that he can get and also sometimes it takes a while to get things right. There is hope and that is what you have to hold on to. Take care of yourself and your family and other things will fall into place later. My thoughts are with you and I wish you comfort and strength.
Well MsJen,when you get it sorted out I bet that between us we can cover all of them.
MsJen, you and your family are in my prayers. I'm sorry to learn of your challenges and loss. My own son faces some tough problems and we work with the doctor closely. His doctor is one who cares and has much background and experience on which to make helpful insights and decisions. It sounds like you've a good doctor, too. That does make all the difference. My own brother is a bit unstable and has now lost his driving priviledges due to drunk driving. We all worry and try to lend our help. He seems to be his own worst enemy. Again, you & your son are in my prayers, too.
Ms. Jen, I will keep you in my prayers. Don't give the trades another thought, I can't think of a person here who woundn't understand, and if they didn't, well not the kind of friend we need. Your peace and family are way more important than any plant. You hang in there, we are with you. Sorry it took me long to post.
Dearest MsJen, what a tragedy for you to have to endure. I am glad that your son is on meds and with the help of his doctor and your family I hope he will stabilize.
Take one day at a time, and hang in there, and when things get really tough, just go outside and give a scream or two, it always helps me (course my reputation in the neighbuorhood suffered)
