This is Russelia equisetiformis. http://davesgarden.com/guides/pf/go/1334/ I have a few small plants of this available for trade. Not for postage please...sorry. Please have a look through my want list or make me an offer you think I might like.
CLOSED: Have: Firecracker Plant
I would love a couple of those. While I don't have anything exactly on your list, here's my thoughts based on your preferences.... I have seeds of a dk. purple short spurred columbine - mine produces over 100 blooms yearly, and I have the moonglow sanseveiria - a nice sized plant - not a baby. Check out my have list if these don't interest you.
Sending you dmail ;)
Still have a couple left.