General Discussion & Chat: Best/Worse/What did I learn today? Visit with friends..., 1 by Bettypauze

Bettypauze wrote:
Looks like you've got major issues going on Crissy..some stemming back to before the layoff...discussions (won't say fights) are hard to get beyond once the waters have calmed... what is spoken in hurt can never be taken back...so 'sweetie' take time, maybe even sleep on what you want to say to him..you are both under a lot of stress and worry..tomorrow might be a brighter day..

Got a call just before I left, Bernie and Charlene were on their way to pick up her new car..exciting for her I'm sure...he had borrowed $4K from my mom yesterday to pick up flooring because his bank is an independent bank and he couldn't withdraw $$ from the city, said as I was going to pick mom up tomorrow for Buffalo I'd save him a trip..they wouldn't be home but he'd leave a check for her on his truck seat...

Check was there but also an envelope saying "Happy Birthday Betty - Love Bernie and Charlene" told him no way I want him to buy me a Wii..note with $$$ said, surely a brother/SIL can give a sister something for her birthday can they not? Can't win can I????