Beginner Gardening: My beefy tomato plant has only 2 fruits , 1 by hocasatown

hocasatown wrote:
Thank you all for answering my post. Looking back and comparing your notes - I have done everything wrong in the beginning. I watered from the top so no wonder no fruits. I didn't know tomatoes don't like hot temperature. The leaves are yellow now. I thought since they need lots of water and sun being in pots. I will try to shake the plants for better pollination.

HoneybeeNC, why do we stress ourselves over a few tomatoes?