General Discussion & Chat: Best/Worse &What did I learnt today/Chat with Friends #76, 1 by Bettypauze

Bettypauze wrote:
Janice did that as soon as Suzanne called, she said she relayed how we were joking that he was making an honest woman out of her etc. and said she in no way implied any different..

I truly try to avoid gatherings with Roger's mom and some of the family in them..some of you know the story of when Roger was in the hospital begging me not to let them see him as he was, soiled, no underclothing, in pain etc. he truly thought he would be coming home and would see them then..dying to me was the easy part, being the one left alive explaining that I only did what was asked of me didn't sooth their hatred...hindsight is 20/20..knowing what I know now I'd not have asked them not to come or visit with him...years have gone by but the pain hasn't...so anytime they can, I'm made out to be the B*&^h....guess it's understandable...several of the 10 remaining sibblings have stayed by my side and that of my boys, the others, well let's just say they'd rather I didn't exist...guess that's why even though this is trivial to most, it hits hard...

Regardless of my staying in my own corner, my world, my home, it seems to follow me here...

Greg came for supper, said I cooked for 10..knew he'd be tired of turkey so cooked a roast..Mel and the boys are away at her bio mom and dad's till tomorrow night...I cooked 2 of his favorite pies, will have to send some home with him otherwise guess who will eat it...

He just left to go in search of stain..we repaired his dining room chair struts and they match fairly well, but Mel got a stool for her kitchen and he's trying to match the color...

Did not finish my tiling..should have, but wasn't up to it...feel like going to bed about now but Greg has other plans..some repair projects...lol

Still raining .. omg...what needs hip waiter boots to get around..we're going to be in trouble unless it freezes...

Greg went to Meaford by snowmobile yesterday, 100 kls. and said the trails were fairly well packed, sad, all the grooming and work on trails, all to be lost for the Christmas season when all are looking to enjoy...
Doesn't look promising for the next week or so either...

Do hope you all enjoyed your day...won't it be nice to get back into a schedule..