General Discussion & Chat: Best Thing/Worse Thing and What did I learn today? #65, 0 by Bettypauze

Bettypauze wrote:
No stretch and not too big...too late Judy, took the chest part off..going back and forth from one costume to the next...likely be up all night...

Thought I'd take a break and call Sharon, should have called her earlier...

She was so upset that now I'm upset and not sure how I can help her out..

She has 2 sons one 39 who lives quite a distance from her, the other 40 almost 41 year old moved back with her when his marriage broke up, she's been trying to have him move out and he absolutely won't..although she threatens to get the police involved she doesn't..then I mentioned before that she remarried about 20 years ago, Terry was never married and he wanted children, now this is when both of her children were away from the home... so she decided she would adopt not 1 but 2 - both girls...the eldest girl is quite a handfull, when this marriage didn't work out she was left with having to raise them, thank the Lord that they are well to do and he paid for private schools/any thing they want they get...well, so I don't write a novel, when the eldest turned 14 she was a handfull and finally Terry took her to live with him as Sharon couldn't handle her! Sharon has Nikki and of course dear old Brian..I'll not talk kindly of him even though I try not to speak ill of anyone...but I've just about had it...

Now for today's story and reason I gave you background info..

Here Sharon is feeling poorly, needs major surgery on her back as she cannot move, taking morphine, in the hospital, waiting for her surgery date....for the past 3 weeks while she's been in the hospital (her home is not more than 5 - 10 minutes tops from the hospital) she has asked Brian to bring her various things, he says he's tired, doesn't work full time, doubt he even works) so here she has no one to depend on...then he was keeping an eye on Nikki, she's in grade 10 and so it's best she stays in her own home so that she doesn't miss school, but it's been fighting between Nikki and Brian and they each take turns calling Sharon screaming about the other..today Brian told Nikki to get out, called Terry (Sharon's ex) told him to pick her up..well now Sharon is in fits, that's Nikki's home, Brian should be the one leaving...so she's trying to be referee..so now Terry comes and picks up Nikki for a few days, Brian is acting up...my mom stops by the hospital to visit, finds Sharon inconsolible and in tears..so off mom goes to Sharon's to talk to Brian, they get in an argument, mom leaves to go home, Brian calls Sharon yelling and screaming at her...

If this isn't bad enough, Terry had to tell Sharon that the eldest Rhonda who was visiting her grandparents for the weekend waited until they were asleep on Saturday night and ran away, she left a note saying she'd be in contact in a few months...she's not 16 yet although she looks like 20...

If being in the hospital waiting for surgery that could take the use of your legs away wasn't bad enough, now the worry of not knowing where her child is...

I just want to go to her house and strangle that 40 year old brat...God have mercy on me...

So my adrenaline is up, I probably will finish both costumes because I'll not sleep, not tired, too mad...

Sorry, just had to vent...probably none of it makes sense, but does to me!